Occurring unexpectedly, unintentionally, or by chance
Let’s talk about secrets, and more specifically, about revealing secrets. A secret is some piece of information known to some individual or group, which that group (or some subgroup of it) wants to remain unknown to those who do not know it. To keep a secret is to not tell any unknowing soul the information. To reveal a secret is to tell someone who doesn’t know the secret about it – or is it? Well, here are some possibilities:
- telling someone you know knows the information
- telling someone you know doesn’t know
- telling someone who you aren’t sure if they know
The last two are probably revealing a secret. The first might get you a reprimand (Don’t just go around babbling that to anyone! What if I hadn’t known…, for instance), or it might just be a normal activity. Depends on the secretive group.
Now, what would it mean to accidentally reveal the secret? (hint: see post title) Well, it probably means that you told the secret to someone who didn’t know the information carelessly, by a slip of the tongue, as it were. You may or may not have known that the person knew the information. And, importantly for this discussion, as soon as you realize that you uttered that information, you realize your error.
Ah, but there’s a whole other set of possibilities if we consider the possibility that you don’t realize that some piece of information is a secret. First possibility: your friend tells you some information intended to be a secret, but you figure it’s already common knowledge. Say your friend told you that she was going to join the Navy, and so you figure that this information is widely known, if not among her other friends than at least among her immediate family. But you’re in luck, because your friend hasn’t told anyone else yet (what a good friend you must be, then). So, you bring it up in conversation with her parents (So, now that your daughter is leaving college to join the Navy…), and only then, when the parents are {raging mad / unconscious on the floor / whatever}, do you realize your mistake. Your utterance of the secret was made perfectly intentionally, with specific goals in mind, though importantly you assumed it was common knowledge when you uttered it. The question is: did you do anything accidentally?
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